forbear

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verb

for·​bear fȯr-ˈber How to pronounce forbear (audio)
fər-
forbore fȯr-ˈbȯr How to pronounce forbear (audio)
fər-
; forborne fȯr-ˈbȯrn How to pronounce forbear (audio)
fər-
; forbearing
Synonyms of forbear

transitive verb

1
: to hold oneself back from especially with an effort
forbore mentioning the incident
tried to forbear making rash judgments
2
obsolete : to do without
3
obsolete : to leave alone : shun
forbear his presence …William Shakespeare

intransitive verb

1
: hold back, abstain
… have forborne from taking part in any controversy …Abraham Lincoln
2
: to control oneself when provoked : be patient
forbore with his friend's failings
forbearer noun

forbear

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noun (1)

for·​bear

less common spelling of forebear

: ancestor, forefather
also : precursor
usually used in plural
His forebears fought in the American Revolution.

forebear

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noun (2)

fore·​bear ˈfȯr-ˌber How to pronounce forebear (audio)
variants or less commonly forbear
: ancestor, forefather
also : precursor
usually used in plural
His forebears fought in the American Revolution.

Did you know?

Forebear (also spelled, less commonly, as forbear) was first used by our ancestors in the days of Middle English. Fore- means "coming before," just as in forefather, and -bear means "one that is." This -bear is not to be confused with the -bear in the unrelated verb forbear, which comes from Old English beran, meaning "to bear or carry." The -bear in the noun forebear is a combination of be-, from the verb be (or, more specifically, from been, an old dialect variant of be), and -ar, a form of the suffix -er, which we append to verbs to denote one that performs a specified action. In this case the "action" is simply existing or being—in other words, -bear implies one who is a "be-er."

Examples of forbear in a Sentence

Verb He carefully forbore any mention of her name for fear of upsetting them. We decided to forbear provoking him any further. We decided to forbear from provoking him any further. He forebore to mention her name. Noun (2) His forebears fought in the American Civil War. his forebears came to America on the Mayflower
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Verb
Some of the most outrageous scenes are between Stacy, who likes to act out, and her forbearing therapist (Will Arnett). Anne Thompson, IndieWire, 4 June 2026 If Mamdani seems curiously forbearing toward Amin, given his own history, that has much to do with what happened next. Kelefa Sanneh, New Yorker, 6 Oct. 2025
Noun
Eight Dukes of Wellington and two very full centuries on from that 1825 procession, on this June 16, the 9th Duke rode, as each of his forbears did and as the future heirs to the ducal title will do, in the lead carriage with the king to open Royal Ascot. Guy Martin, Forbes.com, 19 June 2026 Absent the lush melancholy of classic synth-pop, what Hervé and Amato had in common with their forbears was a spirit of innovation rooted in profound laziness. Walden Green, Pitchfork, 23 May 2026
Noun
People grew accustomed to the expectation that each generation would surpass the horizons of their forebears. Hua Hsu, New Yorker, 22 June 2026 Since then, Istanbul has seen only mayors from his AKP party and its forebears, the Welfare and Virtue parties. Kaya Genç, The Dial, 9 June 2026 See All Example Sentences for forbear

Word History

Etymology

Verb

Middle English forberen, from Old English forberan to endure, do without, from for- + beran to bear

Noun (2)

Middle English (Scots), from fore- + -bear (from been to be)

First Known Use

Verb

before the 12th century, in the meaning defined at transitive sense 2

Noun (2)

15th century, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of forbear was before the 12th century

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“Forbear.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/forbear. Accessed 5 Jul. 2026.

Kids Definition

forbear

1 of 2 verb
for·​bear fȯr-ˈba(ə)r How to pronounce forbear (audio)
fər-
-ˈbe(ə)r
forbore -ˈbō(ə)r How to pronounce forbear (audio)
-ˈbȯ(ə)r
; forborne -ˈbō(ə)rn How to pronounce forbear (audio)
-ˈbȯ(ə)rn
; forbearing
1
: to hold back or keep from : abstain
2
: to be patient when annoyed
forbearer noun

forbear

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variant of forebear

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