passive-aggressive

adjective

pas·​sive-ag·​gres·​sive ˈpa-siv-ə-ˈgre-siv How to pronounce passive-aggressive (audio)
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by the expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive passive way (as through procrastination and stubbornness)
It is passive-aggressive behavior, the donning of a mask of amiability that conceals raw antagonism toward one's competitors, even one's friends.Hilary De Vries
A passive-aggressive manager eschews open hostilities, in part because he feels distinctly uncomfortable with them.Walter Kiechel III
passive-aggressive noun

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This could be along the lines of a passive-aggressive email or a coworker misunderstanding your tone. Valerie Mesa, PEOPLE, 1 Apr. 2026 Also, put aside your passive-aggressive attitude. Abigail Van Buren, Boston Herald, 26 Mar. 2026 That passive-aggressive email ruined your mood, but the feedback about your project was pretty accurate. Jenna Ryu, SELF, 25 Mar. 2026 Stellan Skarsgård captures the passive-aggressive narcissism of the artist patriarch who has much to apologize for but mostly thinks his daughters are too mean to him. Joe Reid, Vulture, 10 Mar. 2026 See All Example Sentences for passive-aggressive

Word History

First Known Use

1945, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of passive-aggressive was in 1945

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“Passive-aggressive.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/passive-aggressive. Accessed 7 Apr. 2026.

Medical Definition

passive-aggressive

1 of 2 adjective
: being, marked by, or displaying behavior characterized by expression of negative feelings, resentment, and aggression in an unassertive way (as through procrastination, stubbornness, and unwillingness to communicate)
a passive-aggressive personality
passive-aggressively adverb

passive-aggressive

2 of 2 noun
: a passive-aggressive individual
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