Synonyms of self-pitynext
: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying adjective
self-pityingly adverb

Examples of self-pity in a Sentence

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No self-pity in those four words, no performance of stoicism either—just the clean arithmetic of a life lived at full speed. Outside, 10 Feb. 2026 There is no time for despair, no place for self-pity, no need for silence, no room for fear. Literary Hub, 6 Feb. 2026 You’re allowed to want more, of course, but be wary of getting stuck in the quagmire of self-pity. Tarot.com, The Orlando Sentinel, 4 Feb. 2026 Valdez didn’t create from a place of self-pity or victimhood, but with a bit of chip on his shoulder — eager to prove wrong those who underestimated him based on his background. Carlos Aguilar, Variety, 23 Jan. 2026 See All Example Sentences for self-pity

Word History

First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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“Self-pity.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-pity. Accessed 14 Feb. 2026.

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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