: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying adjective
self-pityingly adverb

Examples of self-pity in a Sentence

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For the first — and perhaps only — time in his Iowa coaching career, Ferentz briefly wallowed in self-pity. Scott Dochterman, New York Times, 14 Sep. 2025 Not that Paul, 42 years old and newly divorced, is overly inclined toward self-pity. Guy Lodge, Variety, 29 Aug. 2025 Because what's the legacy of your mother was killed by your father, who then, in a fit of self-pity and fear, killed himself? Julia Bonavita, FOXNews.com, 3 Aug. 2025 The question felt more confrontational than self-pitying. Amanda Petrusich, New Yorker, 21 July 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-pity

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First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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“Self-pity.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-pity. Accessed 21 Sep. 2025.

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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