upsetting

adjective

up·​set·​ting (ˌ)əp-ˈse-tiŋ How to pronounce upsetting (audio)
: mentally or emotionally troubling or disturbing : causing feelings of worry or anxiety
heard some upsetting news
an upsetting experience
We're up to [a deficit of] $1.5 trillion a year …. These numbers are truly upsetting.Bill Gates
Professors issue, or students demand, trigger warnings when presenting material that might be upsetting to some: depictions of rape, sexism, racism, suicide.Yvonne Abraham
upsettingly adverb
an upsettingly graphic depiction of violence
In comparison to male historical figures, the number of women that we learn about throughout school is upsettingly low. Alexis Gardner

Examples of upsetting in a Sentence

the constant arguing is upsetting to a sensitive person like your grandmother
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But perhaps even more upsetting was that Issa stayed with him in the finale, a plot point show creator Issa Rae says doesn't sit well with fans to this day. Stephanie Sengwe, PEOPLE, 19 Sep. 2025 That these famous names were dedicating time and energy to the cause nearly two years later felt to me like a poor attempt to rectify what felt like eons of damning, upsetting silence. Shaad D’souza, Pitchfork, 18 Sep. 2025 The Commodores snapped an 11-year poll drought last October, though — fun fact — upsetting Alabama didn’t vault Vandy into the rankings. Ralph D. Russo, New York Times, 14 Sep. 2025 And yet, despite being an Oscar-hopeful crowd-pleaser rather than a horror movie, The Green Mile features some of the most upsetting imagery and themes in any King adaptation. James Grebey, Time, 12 Sep. 2025 See All Example Sentences for upsetting

Word History

First Known Use

1872, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of upsetting was in 1872

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“Upsetting.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/upsetting. Accessed 20 Sep. 2025.

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