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How does the verb cajole differ from other similar words?

Some common synonyms of cajole are blandish, coax, soft-soap, and wheedle. While all these words mean "to influence or persuade by pleasing words or actions," cajole suggests the deliberate use of flattery to persuade in the face of reluctance or reasonable objections.

cajoled him into cheating on the final exam

When might blandish be a better fit than cajole?

Although the words blandish and cajole have much in common, blandish implies a more open desire to win a person over by effusive praise and affectionate actions.

legislators blandished with promises of support

When is it sensible to use coax instead of cajole?

While the synonyms coax and cajole are close in meaning, coax implies gentle and persistent words or actions employed to produce a desired effect.

coaxed the cat out of the tree

In what contexts can soft-soap take the place of cajole?

In some situations, the words soft-soap and cajole are roughly equivalent. However, soft-soap refers to using smooth and somewhat insincere talk usually for personal gain.

politicians soft-soaping eligible voters

When is wheedle a more appropriate choice than cajole?

The words wheedle and cajole can be used in similar contexts, but wheedle suggests more strongly than cajole the use of seductive appeal or artful words in persuading.

hucksters wheedling her life's savings out of her

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of cajole After arm-twisting and cajoling lawmakers overnight, Trump and Speaker Mike Johnson (R-La.) hailed what is likely to be the most significant piece of legislation enacted during the president’s second term. Alexis Simendinger, The Hill, 4 July 2025 The Senate's parliamentarian on Thursday ruled that several key Medicaid provisions designed to help cajole nervous Republicans into voting yes can't be included in the bill. Rebecca Morin, USA Today, 27 June 2025 Law professors have said that advertisers have a strong defense under the First Amendment, but Musk's firm reportedly cajoled some companies into buying ads by threatening to sue them. ArsTechnica, 13 June 2025 Editors’ Picks The Trump administration has been trying to cajole other countries into reaching quick trade deals with the United States. Ana Swanson, New York Times, 8 May 2025 See All Example Sentences for cajole
Recent Examples of Synonyms for cajole
coax
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  • There was something meditative about the way the water bubbled and burst, coaxing that tough meat to tenderness.
    Cleyvis Natera, Bon Appetit Magazine, 21 July 2025
  • The crowd burst into laughter, but even wizardry couldn't coax it in.
    Devlina Sarkar, MSNBC Newsweek, 18 July 2025

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“Cajole.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/cajole. Accessed 7 Aug. 2025.

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