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How does the adjective coy contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of coy are bashful, diffident, modest, and shy. While all these words mean "not inclined to be forward," coy implies a pretended shyness.

put off by her coy manner

Where would bashful be a reasonable alternative to coy?

While in some cases nearly identical to coy, bashful implies a frightened or hesitant shyness characteristic of childhood and adolescence.

a bashful boy out on his first date

When would diffident be a good substitute for coy?

While the synonyms diffident and coy are close in meaning, diffident stresses a distrust of one's own ability or opinion that causes hesitation in acting or speaking.

felt diffident about raising an objection

When is it sensible to use modest instead of coy?

The meanings of modest and coy largely overlap; however, modest suggests absence of undue confidence or conceit.

modest about her success

When could shy be used to replace coy?

In some situations, the words shy and coy are roughly equivalent. However, shy implies a timid reserve and a shrinking from familiarity or contact with others.

shy with strangers

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of coy Chalfant illustrates this in the film with exquisite subtlety, assuming by turns the disposition of a coy flirt and a take-charge kitchen taskmaster. Lisa Wong MacAbasco, Vogue, 20 June 2025 Jacobs-Jenkins came to think that that coy allusion was a bad idea. Adam Moss, Vulture, 30 May 2025 Where other editors would remain strategically coy. Jeetendr Sehdev, Forbes.com, 1 July 2025 However, the cast has stayed coy about any specifics of the film. Samantha Bergeson, IndieWire, 30 June 2025 See All Example Sentences for coy
Recent Examples of Synonyms for coy
Adjective
  • The 26-year-old All-Pro very publicly requested a trade from Dallas yesterday, and fellow Cowboys players were not shy about voicing their support for the star edge rusher.
    Chris Branch, New York Times, 2 Aug. 2025
  • Isabella Sermon will appear opposite Lowden as Georgiana, Mr. Darcy's shy and shockingly accomplished teenage sister.
    Randall Colburn, EW.com, 1 Aug. 2025
Adjective
  • Madelyn Cline went full-on Old Hollywood bombshell, kittenish liner, polished lengths, and all.
    Calin Van Paris, Vogue, 15 Jan. 2023
  • With a basis of flawless skin—smoothing and hydration offered via Kylie Skin Face Moisturizer and Eye Cream—Phillips pulled a thick wing of black liner along Jenner's lids, a diminutive wing beneath the lower lashline providing a kittenish complement.
    Calin Van Paris, Vogue, 13 Sep. 2021
Adjective
  • Set in Taiwan in 1988, the intergenerational drama revolves around Hsiao-lee, a quiet and withdrawn girl, growing up in silent gloom.
    Melanie Goodfellow, Deadline, 23 July 2025
  • Everyone reacts differently to a cancer diagnosis: some men may want to talk openly, others may become quiet or withdrawn.
    Alex Apatoff, People.com, 8 July 2025
Adjective
  • Mars joined Rosé onstage at Los Angeles’ SoFi Stadium to showcase the flirtatious track, which sees the pair dueting on vocals and sharing the hooky chorus.
    Emily Zemler, Rolling Stone, 14 July 2025
  • Dinklage is particularly amusing as the giddy, genteel Prater, while Ritter balances wry disdain with flirtatious charm as Mia. Hall is, as always, entertaining as Dexter, delivering his character’s signature blend of deadpan humor and an earnest façade.
    EW.com, EW.com, 10 July 2025
Adjective
  • The next morning, Onley was bashful at hearing that praise.
    Jacob Whitehead, New York Times, 22 July 2025
  • There are dozens of people screaming his name and the young Ronaldo appears bashful and shy.
    Tim Spiers, New York Times, 15 May 2025
Adjective
  • Chez Fifi is both a hot spot and a demure neighborhood restaurant, serving a classic French menu that draws crowds from uptown and downtown.
    Ligaya Mishan, New York Times, 22 July 2025
  • Each side has a demure split that makes the dress more breathable, especially when the sun is beating down hard.
    Stephanie Osmanski, Better Homes & Gardens, 16 July 2025

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“Coy.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/coy. Accessed 6 Aug. 2025.

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