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verb

present participle of despair

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How does the adjective despairing differ from other similar words?

Some common synonyms of despairing are desperate, despondent, and hopeless. While all these words mean "having lost all or nearly all hope," despairing suggests the slipping away of all hope and often despondency.

despairing appeals for the return of the kidnapped child

When is it sensible to use desperate instead of despairing?

While the synonyms desperate and despairing are close in meaning, desperate implies despair that prompts reckless action or violence in the face of defeat or frustration.

one last desperate attempt to turn the tide of battle

When might despondent be a better fit than despairing?

While in some cases nearly identical to despairing, despondent implies a deep dejection arising from a conviction of the uselessness of further effort.

despondent about yet another rejection

Where would hopeless be a reasonable alternative to despairing?

The synonyms hopeless and despairing are sometimes interchangeable, but hopeless suggests despair and the cessation of effort or resistance and often implies acceptance or resignation.

the situation of the trapped miners is hopeless

Example Sentences

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Recent Examples of despairing
Adjective
Rebin carries a despairing sense of hope in him, months later. Cora Engelbrecht, New Yorker, 3 Apr. 2026 Premiering the first of eight episodes on Sunday, March 22, The Comeback’s shaggy, despairing, hilarious, and sometimes baldly sentimental third season spends its first two episodes running through all the horsemen of the Hollywood-pocalypse. Jackson McHenry, Vulture, 20 Mar. 2026
Verb
The book’s tone shifts from philosophical to playful to despairing to sensual, and on around again. The New Yorker, New Yorker, 31 Dec. 2025 See All Example Sentences for despairing
Recent Examples of Synonyms for despairing
Adjective
  • The 41-year-old Portuguese footballer managed to put two past a hopeless Uzbekistan, becoming the first player to score in six consecutive World Cups.
    Scott Roxborough, HollywoodReporter, 29 June 2026
  • The conflict feels contemporary without growing too cynical, and the core relationship stakes seem real without skewing hopeless.
    Alison Foreman, IndieWire, 19 June 2026
Adjective
  • Rescuers have been combing through the rubble of the hotel in a desperate attempt to save any survivors.
    Lex Harvey, CNN Money, 30 June 2026
  • The teen’s mother was so desperate for an update on her son’s health last year that his criminal defense attorney, Jerod Gunsberg, made an open plea in a Times article for probation officials to provide information.
    James Queally, Los Angeles Times, 30 June 2026
Verb
  • Sixty years later, young Alma Singer begins searching for the writer of her mother’s favorite book, hoping to bring romance to her grieving parent.
    The Know, Denver Post, 5 July 2026
  • The movie follows Gugino as a grieving woman who takes in her troubled nephew, but their lives are upended when an otherworldly entity begins hunting him.
    Scott Huver, PEOPLE, 4 July 2026
Adjective
  • His willingness to move to Rio de Janeiro upon taking the job endeared him to the cynical public, as did his decision to call up Neymar to his squad to quieten the noise the forward’s potential exclusion would have brought with it.
    Chris Evans, Forbes.com, 5 July 2026
  • Against the run of play, the Atlas Lions won a free kick near the corner of the box after Luc De Fougerolles was booked for a cynical challenge.
    Patrick Sung Cuadrado, CNN Money, 4 July 2026
Adjective
  • The decade was an unhappy panorama of inflation, gas shortages, military humiliation, and revelations of political corruption.
    Ann Manov, Harpers Magazine, 30 June 2026
  • On Tuesday, Paul urged Americans who are unhappy with the justices’ ruling to support his proposal.
    Claire Carter, The Washington Examiner, 30 June 2026
Verb
  • The bishop longs for those who are bereaved or suffering to feel a sense of God’s love there.
    Angie Leventis Lourgos, Chicago Tribune, 5 July 2026
  • Many Russian regions are suffering fuel shortages as a result, with people filming themselves waiting in long lines at gas stations.
    Patrick Reevell, ABC News, 4 July 2026
Adjective
  • Day broke, bathing everything in light, and so great was the vitality of the early-morning sun that even the unhappy city seemed to smile a wan, sad smile.
    Vasily Grossman, Harpers Magazine, 30 June 2026
  • But SpringHill really took off in 2020, two seasons into James’ Lakers term, when The SpringHill Company went public (and the Lakers won the sad COVID-bubble NBA Championship).
    Tony Maglio, HollywoodReporter, 30 June 2026
Verb
  • Fitzsimmons said Swift's fans have spent years following the singer's love life, celebrating its highs and mourning its lows.
    Leila Fadel, NPR, 26 June 2026
  • Venezuelan football and the entire nation are in mourning.
    Jessica Hopkins, New York Times, 26 June 2026

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“Despairing.” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/despairing. Accessed 6 Jul. 2026.

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